After Lavalife, I only know of a few others that are worth mentioning, although I've yet to find one that's truly ideal.
Good sites can go bad, and those I don't recommend may improve.Of course, new sites will debut that may or may not be of merit.We've all seen them - the ads show a bevy of beautiful women in your area, but when you sign up, you realize that the women were just ads that were geographically targeted to your search preferences.Even sites that may once have been good can go bad.Alt Scene is an alternative dating site aimed at making it easier for like minded single people to meet and get to know each other.
So if you're a single punk, emo, rocker, skater, metalhead or anything in between why not give us a go, there's bound to be someone who shares your tastes!
And when I clicked on a picture, the city and/or state changed to someplace nearby... There has to be a legitimate adult dating site out there. "Welcome, Stephen, and thanks to my colleague, sexuality expert Cory Silverberg, for sending you my way.
To answer your question: it depends on what you mean by legitimate.
They may be sold to a different owner who uses different standards or may engage in some of those shady practices to boost membership and use. You simply have to watch your back on any online dating site.
Always be wary of the signs of an internet dating scam.
We can all help keep each other safe by reporting dating scams.